We want you to have better anal sex and experience fewer awkward moments. No matter what you choose to do, you cannot completely control your body. But these kinds of things are things you want to be talking to your partner about first.
Incorporating a fiber supplement like Metamucil into your diet can help.
The pros and cons of douching with an enema. November 28, Reply. When I try it for the first time, it was very uncomfortable but I get used to it. This means you can direct the flow of water through the douche or the shower.
Good luck. The shower enema and bag douche work in similar ways.
You will probably find — as I did — that after you stop clenching and finally relax your butt, the feeling of your hole opening feels really good. But this stuff is just enhancement. For those who still insist on doing something— anything —up there before sex, Dr.
Suggest a correction.
When we douche, the force of water propelled into the colon goes past the area that actually needs to be clean for sex, up into the sigmoid colon. No "tap-tap" before everything is inside. We also see the flip side, where gay men state that they prefer a certain race and speaking to and about them in fetishizing ways.
Do what you feel! Additionally, reliable sexual education that pays no heed to myths and misinformation is paramount.